Father’s Day is only a week away, so today we are sharing the ultimate Father’s Day gift guide. We’ve got a little bit for every dad out there! Whether your man is a foodie or handy guy, we’re sharing our favorite gifts for everything in between.
The Traveler
The perfect travel kit and it’s on sale! Great brand and can hold a ton of stuff.
Just like that, almost overnight it seems, your little baby is now walking, climbing, and talking. They’re suddenly a big kid, which means it’s time for a toddler room. Today I am sharing some easy ways on how to transition your nursery to a toddler room.
When I found out I was pregnant with my second baby boy almost 4 years ago, I knew I wanted to decorate his nursery as a “woodland” theme. With this being my second boy, the hubby pretty much gave me free rein on the entire project! I wanted to incorporate gold tones and keep it neutral and “baby free”. We had moved into a new house and this was going to most likely be our forever home. My thought was to keep this room neutral so it could transition with my child. We painted the walls graceful gray and I was in love. I used the same nursery furniture that my oldest used when he was a baby. When it came to decorating, I kept it simple. I added a few pictures above the changing table that could easily be replaced or changed out if I wanted. Most of the pics I got from Etsy and Hobby Lobby.
Fast forward to a few years later, the time had come where my babe was climbing out of his crib. I knew it was time for a toddler bed. I found this one at Ikea and it’s the perfect height for my toddler. Instead of a box spring it has slats which keeps it a low profile bed for your growing toddler. Everything on the walls has stayed up for 4 years, because it’s still age appropriate.
We recently installed this Lucian LED fan from Kichler. I love it’s bold, strong lines for my little mans room. It’s masculine but still very stylish and appropriate for the room. It’s also a very clean look and the best part about it is the digital wall mount with 3 settings and a dimmer. When bedtime approaches my little guy loves to put his fan on low for the perfect breeze and dim the lights for story time. It quiet and perfect!
Tips on how to transition:
Shop my nursery/toddler room below:
Thanks for stopping by- Carley
When Hoffmann Brothers reached out and asked if we wanted to meet to discuss working together we both were excited. I will be the first to tell you that I’m slightly behind on all the regular maintenance at our home – it’s that busy mom life. Then we get one warm day and the glimmer of spring starts my check list of things we need to do!
I spent the afternoon at Carley’s house with the Hoffmann Brothers team learning about everything they do. Something that really stood out to us was their team and how friendly they were! The customer service is unlike any other, plus we received an email when the tech was on his way.
When Bubby arrived he was so friendly and even brought her son coloring books and crayons. Such a bonus when the kids feel safe with someone new in the home!
Carley’s pup Victor didn’t get left out either. Hoffman even has a special treats for your dogs!
The more we learned about their Home Protection Plan, the more we kept thinking, this is genius. We wish we would have know about this years ago!
A few of our favorite perks of being a Home Protection Plan Member…
I got to “work” with Tom, as he taught me more about AC units then I ever knew! I did learn some interesting facts (most over my head) but one is to keep your plants trimmed back and away from your units! Tom also worked on the annual tune up to get it ready for summer.
Next we ventured into Carley’s basement to check on her furnace filter and learn why it is so important to keep those changed. Anyone else have a hard time keeping up with changing theirs and remembering what kind to buy at the store (this is me). Luckily with the Home Protection Plan they will send you the new ones for free!
It was great having Hoffmann Brothers to help get most of our Spring Home Check List marked off. I only have a few more left and will be ready!
My Spring Home Check List
Hoffmann Brothers is your local company that really does it all and we know that next spring they will be ready to tackle this list with us!
Heating, Air Conditioning, Plumbing, Electrical, Appliance Repair, Water Heaters, Drains, Sewers and more!
Hoffmann Brothers
1025 Hanley Industrial Ct
St Louis, MO 63144
314-664-3011
What is your number one project you’d like to get done for spring?
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It’s May which means summer is upon us! Cold beverages, patios hangs, pool days, and cute sun dresses. This month I’ve found sooo many dresses that would be cute for any occasion! And let’s be honest- I get a little giddy when I see a package on my front porch because I know all the goodies are in it!
I am starting with this classic a line dress because I am a sucker for white eyelet and loving all the details. I am wearing a size 0/2. This is tts but maybe size up if your more busty :). I’ve paired mine with the best sandals and these earrings! This dress is under $30!
Next up is this adorable seersucker (another obsession of mine) and floral dress! This is perfect your next beach vacay. Add some fun earrings for a pop of color like I did here with some cute wedges. Wearing size small.
This dress makes me feel so flirty! I am wearing a small and you can keep the tie open in the front or add a cute bow. The sleeves also tie and I love how the access hangs! Wearing size small.
I’ll be wearing this basic dress all summer long! The more basic the better in my eyes. I love anything striped and this dress is no excuse. So soft and looks cute tied up. Through on a baseball hat of fun fedora like mine and you’re ready! I have mine paired with sandals but would also look cute paired with these sneaks. Wearing size xs- under $30!
Dress |Hat | Sandals | Sneaks| Earrings
I had this dress in a different pattern last year and wore it as a swim coverup. I got so many complements that I decided to purchase again in a different print. Super lightweight and easy to throw on over your suit. You could also wear it out for a casual dinner. Wearing size small- under $20.
I am ordering this scalloped top in more colors! I am wearing a size small and in love with it. I think it’s so cute paired with white denim- under $15
Top | Jeans |Earrings | Sandals
Lastly, another amazing swimsuit from amazon! But this time I actually have it on the correct way- haha. I’ve paired this cute high waist suit with my favorite coverup! Now I just need to plan my next beach vacay! Wearing size small (4/6).
Other items I am currently obsessing over right now…
Steamer– 2 words: LIFE CHANGING
This mini steamer is perfect for travel, on the go, and it works wonders. You can throw away your iron!
Apple Watch band- I can’t live without my watch, and switching my bands out every few months is one of my favs things to do. These are by far the most similar to the iwatch bands for a fraction of the price. Available in 20+ colors!
Bar earrings- I love a good dainty earring for everyday. These are similar to the ones at j.crew ones and only $12.99.
Rosehip Oil– helps with fine lines, wrinkles, scarring and a ton more. It even smells heavenly 🙂
Velvet hangers– I recently switched over to these when we updated our closet. They look so much better and hold more clothes because they are narrow- BONUS!
What are some of your favs you’re absolutely loving from amazon right now?
Also if you want to see more of our finds from Amazon….
Ahhh I am so happy to be moving forward with this fun series. We are working to bring all moms together by featuring working moms and stay at home moms. Each mom will have a chance to give us a glimpse into her life! You can see our first working mom post here, by Lindsay (me).
Onto the good stuff… also I might be slightly biased since Erin is one of my besties! I immediately knew I had to ask her to help with this series!
Introduce yourself mama!
My name is Erin and I’m a 35 year old former workaholic who decided to become a stay at home mom to my 4 year old son and 2 year old daughter after the birth of my baby girl. I’m married to my hilarious husband whom I’ve known since the 3rd grade, been together with for twenty years (yes…twenty) and married to for almost ten! He is the cause of all of my laugh lines and the best Dad to our little ones.
What do you do ?
I was a full time working Mom with a wonderful job in Medical Sales until my daughter was born. Now, I spend my days chasing my wild and crazy daughter who is covered in stains and constantly has hair in her face while trying to answer questions from my son about where EXACTLY dinosaurs are now…(if anyone has a better answer than dinosaur heaven, please let me know). I make car trips to and from school and work with my daughter on the things I remember my son learned at daycare; letters, numbers, colors and ABC’s while trying teach them both what it means to share and be kind. I take care of all things laundry, cleaning and shopping for everyone and on the craziest days, I try to stop what I’m doing and get down on the floor to play for a while because I know these days go by way too fast and I’m utterly grateful to be at home.
Why did you choose to stay home ?
I started working in the real world a week after college graduation and had been until I decided to stay home. That was always my goal at some point so I wanted to work super hard and get to a point where I had the choice on what I wanted to do, financially and professionally. My Mom stayed home and some of my fondest childhood memories are of being with her and my three sisters. When my son was born, going back was super hard but we were not in a place financially where I could stay home just yet so my son started daycare right away and I went off to work. I loved my job, which made it easier, but I longed to be home with him.
My husband and I have struggled for years with infertility and we longed for another baby not long after our son was born. After over a year of pure hell, constant rejection and more tears than I can quantify, we FINALLY got the news we were waiting for and found out our daughter was on the way. We were elated and talk of going part time became the topic of conversation. That was the original plan, however, my boss that approved me cutting back ended up leaving and my new manager (whom I had never met) told me a mere two days before my leave was up that part time was no longer an option. My husband and I talked about options and he made a beautiful spreadsheet (which he loves doing) of finances, costs of daycare, cost of preschool (which our son could go to if we pulled him from daycare), etc. We figured out we could do it but he left it up to me. Of course there would be some changes but none that to me seemed a bigger deal than achieving what I wanted which was staying home with my kids that we went through so much to get here.
Anything you don’t love about staying home?
To go from a job where I was in outside sales and did NOTHING but talk to people ALL DAY LONG, it was certainly an adjustment to being completely on my own with my littles. Even daycare dropoff and pickups were fun because some of our closest friends went to the same place so I’d get to see friends all the time! I’d say that there are days where you can feel lonely and miss adult interaction!
What is a tip for a first time stay at home mom?
If you are coming from a fast paced working world, know that it is an adjustment! I remember my sister telling me that at times, it is a very thankless job, but try to remember that what you’re doing is super important even though it won’t always feel that way. At work I was told what a great job I was doing, I won awards and got bonuses…clearly at home that is not going to happen so you can have moments of self doubt wondering if you’re doing the best you can do but know that you are and reach out if you need help.
What is a perk of being a stay at home mom ?
Being able to witness my daughter’s firsts (first time rolling over, first words, etc) at the very moment it happened was and is incredibly special to me. The other day I was singing the ABC’s and out of nowhere, she sang along and finished them on her own to my surprise and I realized that I taught her that! Also, I would say that anytime my kids are sick and knowing that I can keep them home and not have to worry about calling their grandparents at 7 AM for help is a huge bonus. I hated ever leaving them when they didn’t feel well but as all working Moms know, there are days where you have to work and can’t get out of it.
How do you balance Mommin’ and running a home?
When you stay home, schedules are super important not just for your kids, but, for Mom’s sanity! It can also be very hard to get things done with the kids running crazy and there are certainly days where I wish I got more accomplished but I had to make a last minute run to the Pediatrician’s office or some other distraction that throws a wrench in my daily ‘To Do’ list. I have learned to roll with the punches and do the best I can. I try really hard to be present with them and even though repeating myself 1,000 times a day is exhausting, there are moments I catch between my two where they share or say ‘I love you’ to each other without me prompting and it makes me feel like MAYBE they do listen to me.
What would you say to a Mom trying to decide if she wants to go back to work or not?
Do what is right for you and your family and don’t care what other people think or say about your decision! Co-workers of mine were shocked I made the decision to stay home and said I would go out of my mind but I can pleasantly say that I really do love it and am cherishing this time at home! I plan to go back to work one day but for now, I’m soaking up every once of it!
Is your house clean?
Honestly it depends on the time of day! I am a bit of a neat freak but while the kids are playing, all bets are off. I do make them pick up before lunch and dinnertime. I kind of thought it was a win when my son complained the other night saying, “Mom, why do you ALWAYS make me clean up?” Between all of us, the house is fairly picked up at night. It makes me feel less stressed in the morning if I walk into a clean kitchen! (Erin is the house still clean after all of our kids are playing in the basement, need 15 drinks, and 75 suckers?!)
What is the most annoying/funny thing someone has said to you about staying home?
I was at Target with my daughter while my son was at school one day (he goes a few hours a day three days a week) and ran into someone I knew who had taken the day off to watch her little boy that was sick. She said, “Oh wow this must be all you do (walking around Target) all the time, like every day, right? Must be nice.” Well, I like to think I do more for my kids and family than hit up Target although I would LOVE to go every day and buy everything I want from there but that is not my reality. I think there is sometimes a misconception on both sides that Moms can resent about the other that needs to cease to exist. Do not assume you do more than other moms or know their situation. I’ve been on both sides and BOTH are HARD WORK. Both working moms AND staying at home Moms deserve high fives and support without judgment, ESPECIALLY from other Moms!
What are your top 5 things you want to say to a stay at home Mom?
Hope you gals loved reading more about Erin and her adventures at home with her cuties! If you are interested in being part of this series send us an email – thebabblingblondesblog@gmail.com – !
XO- Lindsay
Surprisingly this topic comes up almost weekly and I feel as if I need to defend why I chose to be a working mom. moms shouldn’t have to defend anything
So after a long day at work this topic was heavy on my heart- why I choose to be a working mom. This particular day included leaving my house at 4:15am to catch an early flight, visiting 3 client sites, an hour drive back to the airport to catch another flight so I could get home just in time to tuck the boys into bed. Wanna know what comes after that – all the same things being a mom includes, laundry, dishes, etc. It wasn’t that I choose to be a working mom, maybe it was I chose to have a career and then chose to get married and then chose to have kids.
So the battle of working mom vs stay at home mom isn’t on my radar, we all have it hard. It is not a battle between us. What feels like a battle is the fight to defend our choice of working or staying home. I went to my trusted sounding board of Instagram stories to rant on the topic. Ladies I was blown away – almost to tears ( which is not my personality ). The feed back and comments blew me away and it was coming from both working and stay at home moms.
This gave me the idea to turn this into a monthly post that we feature a working mom and a stay at home mom. They will each share a little about their family and then answer the same questions.
I want this to be a space where we can celebrate and learn about families that are similar and or different from ours because in the end the ONLY thing that matters is what is right for your family and that phase in your life.
I will quickly admit that it is not always easy. Keeping our house from looking like a frat house. Making sure I don’t fill our weekends with errands. Squeezing in all the love in the few short hours I get with my kids daily. Finding people you trust to take care of them. Schedules on schedules, like Tetris figuring that one out.
On a funny note: this entire post just keeps making me laugh and think “who is your daddy and what does he do” ! Name that movie!
A little about your family: Since I am a clear over-sharer you most likely know more about me than most, but here is my Tinder-ish profile recap. 33 year old mamma married to the most handsome man in Des Peres, Missouri. We just celebrated our 5 year wedding anniversary and have two of the wildest boys, Cameron 3 and Brooks 2. We love being outside, staying busy (like very busy), parties, drinks / juice boxes, and sneaking in vacations without our kids ha!
What do you do?
I am a “Business Development Manager” for an IT company. It almost makes me sound important with that title on my card, but basically I’m an outside sales rep.
What hours do you work ?
I do not have a set schedule. Just depends on what is going on. Usually its 8-5 ish. Unless I am traveling or have something I need to work on after the kids go to bed. Sales is not a job that you leave behind at 5, ha I think sometimes I have nightmares about customers! A perk to this is some days I can work at home and that means – laundry, dishes, power clean over lunch.
Why did you choose to go back to work?
I am a talker and a natural busy body and think that after being in my career for 5 years before becoming a mom I just couldn’t walk away. I am proud of this little #bossbabe within me. Also, for me taking a few years off and then jumping back in didn’t seem easy. In sales you usually start at the bottom and move up.
What do you love about your job?
I love to feel like I am solving a problem for customers and winning ha! It is in every salesman/woman’s heart to win and chase down a deal. It feels good being able to find a potential client, build a solution for them, and then get a yes (contract)!
Anything you don’t love about being a working mom?
Of course I hate not being able to see everything my kids are doing daily. Sometimes I have to travel and do not get to get the boys from school or tuck them into bed. It can be hard on your heart. I am so lucky for a great husband and family that helps us. Also, thankful for FaceTime! That is my thing, I hate more than anything is being the last parent at pick up or the mom that forgets all the school activities. I forget picture day most of the time, run into traffic, and didn’t buy Valentines till the night before so my boys gave everyone an orange.
What is a tip for a first time mom returning to work?
Girl, take everything one day at a time. Make sure you have amazing childcare setup so you have one less thing to think about. I promise you that your child will not hate you for working. I promise that that one hour you get together before bedtime as a newborn will turn into hours. I promise you that if this isn’t right for your family you will know and you can make a change.
Where are your kids during the day ?
Surprisingly I get asked if my kids are at home with me – no freaking way. My mom watched our boys until they turned one and then we moved them into daycare/pre-school. They each still get one special day a week with her, which is basically like spring break for a toddler – they are spoiled! I know that we are very lucky to have her helping! The next biggest topic surrounding daycare is the COST, holy moly, I could have a mansion on the beach. To us it is totally worth it. They have structure and are learning more than I could teach them!
What a perk of being a working mom?
There are a few, probably one really bratty one that I take advantage of is treating myself to things that are a want more than a need. I’m not really into the fancy things, but my collection of Dr.Scholls sneakers and matching pajamas might be over kill. On a serious side I do really take pride in hoping that one day my boys will understand why I work so hard for them. They have an amazing life, want for nothing, 529 plan started. I also hope that by seeing me work so hard that they have the drive to do the same and chase their goals. Plus – if someday in one million years they are reading this blog they better be good husbands and give their wives the choice to work or stay home!
How do you balance working, mommin and running a home?
My best advice here is to have a plan, but know it won’t always work ha. I’m not the most organized person in the world, but I am pushing myself to try harder in this area. I am a hard core multi-tasker. Kids are finishing dinner – I speed clean the kitchen. Robovac (Roberto) is running 24/7 to clean up. The kids clothes are set out for the week on Sundays – or Mondays if I enjoy 3 margaritas at Sunday family date night. I never work around my kids…if I have things to do then I will get to them after they are in bed. It will not be perfect so don’t stress over it.
What would you say to a mom trying to decide if she wants to go back or not?
Whatever choice that you make today is not your forever choice. If you decide to go back to work and in 6 months decide that you want to stay home then do it. This is just a phase of your life. My sister in law was able to propose to her company moving to 3 days a week and they said yes! Talk about the best of both worlds!
Is your house clean?
Ha I threw this question in because it is funny, but it is real life. Yes-ish, my house is clean, all the main areas are cleaned up. Is my bed made – NO. Is my laundry all put away – NEVER. Some things I strive to keep clean (for my sanity) and others I just know will not happen.
What is the most annoying / funny thing someone has said to you about being a working mom.
Can say my top 50 things? “oh so you have to work ” ….girl, first of all it is my decision to work. It is comments like this that really fueled this post.
What are your top five things you want to say to working moms ?
This is only a short phase of your life and if you need to make a change for your family then do it.
It’s not always going to be perfect ( no ones life is ), so screw having your kids look like Ralph Lauren models at daycare, opt in for a happy hour, shove the pile of laundry to the side.
Ask for help. If you need someone to pick up the kids or need someone to help with a project at work so you can go to your kids activities. We cannot do it all alone.
Don’t worry about what other anyone else says. This is your life and you have got one shot at it. Make your choices and believe in them.
Just because you are holding that mom title doesn’t mean that is all that you are. I love my family more than anything in the world, but sometimes I need to focus on myself.
Next week we will be featuring a stay at home mom!
XO- Lindsay
Our monthly amazon haul coming in hot – like so hot that we are trying on swimwear when it is still chilly in the Midwest. Warning: these hauls are never super “organized” with our buying rational so we have a mix of everything from swimsuits to pillow cases!
ATHLEISURE
(but totally work out approved)
I am sure that the majority of people think we have about 15 closets – trust me we don’t. We are on a shopping budget just like everyone else so we LOVE when we find an item you can wear multiple ways. Today we are showing you how to style the Leith dress . If you have been hiding under a rock this is pretty much the most flattering and versatile dress. The dress comes in 8 colors too.
There are two categories your house can fall into…. with kids or without kids. That makes a huge difference on the best rug for your home. Trust me the pretty white rug from Pottery Barn that my sweet toddler decided to add purple paint too almost brought me to tears. Now I find rugs that work for our home and our price point in case we have another paint incident I tossed all the freaking non-washable paint too!
A key feature in every working gals arsenal is a finding the best work bag to fit her style. Over the years and as my job has evolved my needs have changed – so the bag changes too.
A few years ago I read that you should stay away from bags that have a well known label and are known to be expensive. It can send the wrong message walking into a meeting with a $1,500 bag. I am all for rewarding yourself with that bag and rocking it for hh and the weekends!
